My hubby is so unpredictable

As the title will suggest, my husband is quite unpredictable at times. For instance, he has spent the last 1.5 years complaining about how much he dislikes the neighbor lady next door. He says she is rude, has very few nice things to say, finds it hard to mind her business, ect (and, these are all very valid complaints!) So, tonight she comes over asking to use the phone, cursing under her breath as to why hers may not be working. After 10 minutes of using our phone and acting like we are making waaay too much noise and bothering her, Andy tells me he thinks he knows what may be wrong. Then, he offers to go over there to check things out! That is where he has been for the last 20+ minutes. He may talk big, but on the inside and when it comes down to it, he can't help himself but to be kind. I love that about him!